Embody sensual and sexual sovereignty

offerings

tantra coaching with secajoy

Sex coaching for melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+

Fully embrace, accept, and approve of your authentic complex sexy self

Sex coaching for melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+

Experience sexuality as a spiritual healing path

Sex coaching for melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+

Experience greater states of inner peace, BLISS, pleasure, and unbounded JOY

This is for you if you seek to:

Supporting melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+ in accessing healing and liberation through sacred sexuality!
  • Learn to communicate intimately for deeper connection & intimacy

  • Facilitate holistic healing on all levels

  • Experience greater states of inner peace, BLISS, pleasure, and unbounded JOY

  • Intentionally implement more pleasure/joy/happiness in ALL areas of your life.

  • Facilitate more connection and alignment - with self, body and/or partner(s).

  • Cultivate optimum physical, mental, and emotional health, wellness, and vitality.

  •  Have a healthier and more fulfilling relationship with your body and sexuality.

supporting melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+ in accessing healing and liberation through sacred sexuality!
  • Purify toxins and transform trauma.

  • Fully embrace, accept, and approve of your authentic complex sexy self.

  • Experience sexuality as a spiritual healing path; sex as a sacred practice.

  • Gain support through life transitions - eg. moving, divorce, parenthood, career shift, menopause, etc.

  • Heal sexual dysfunction (painful sex, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction) and/or sexual trauma.

  • Build capacity for better and longer-lasting orgasms and sexual experiences.

  • Relieve painful or numbed sexual intercourse.

  • Embody sensual and sexual sovereignty.

Our work is about more than just intimacy—it’s about living fully, unapologetically, and in alignment with the divine pleasure that exists within us all.

Schedule a free consult today!

individuals

Personal Coaching customized according to your needs  (6-12 months)

Individual Coaching sessions that are designed to heal and liberate!

Are you struggling with…

  • Low self-esteem and feelings of oppression

  • The inability to express your sensuality

  • Disconnection from your body

  • Lack of sensation and the inability to feel pleasure or joy in your life

  • Chronic stress and self-neglect

If so, then you are in the right place…

supporting melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+ in accessing healing and liberation through sacred sexuality!

Melanated bodies face unique struggles with our sexuality and sacred connection to ourselves and our bodies.

Tantra Coaching with me provides a safe, affirming space to explore and embrace your sexuality. It is designed to reconnect you with your body, emotions, heal from past wounds, and develop deeper intimacy with your sacred self. By fostering mindfulness and sensual awareness, tantra supports you in reclaiming your sexual identity, enhancing pleasure, and cultivating empowered and authentic relationships.

Coaching sessions include:

  • Pleasure & personal assessment

  • Coaching plan and goals

  • Authentic Tantra® practices that connect you with the divine within, facilitate embodied sovereignty and orgasmic living

  • Tibetan 5 Element meditation that helps reconnect you with your body, foster calm abiding awareness and integrate pleasure & joy practices throughout your life.

Schedule a Consult!

couples

Sensual Reclamation & Expansion  (6-12 months)

Deep intimate connection doesn’t just happen…

Are you tired of trying to overcome barriers in your relationship on your own?

Has your partnership become filled with stress, unresolved conflicts, or lack of sexual fulfillment?

In my coaching program for couples I teach you how to explore intimacy (both in and out of the bedroom), cultivate trust and learn to communicate effectively.

I provide you with the tools and practices you need to enhance presence, sensuality, and energy exchange, leading to a more harmonious and satisfying relationship.

Couples Coaching sessions that are designed to expand pleasure and increase communication!

supporting melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+ in accessing healing and liberation through sacred sexuality!

open new pathways for mutual growth and pleasure.

Learn how to…

  • Connect sensually with your partner

  • Practice Tantric Communication

  • Practice Tantric partner massages

  • Expand pleasure capacity and increase intensity of orgasms all while cultivating more joy together and individually

  • Create a vision for sovereign liberated loving together

Schedule Now!

Custom Retreats/ Intensives

Sex coaching for melanated women, men, & LGBTQ+

We come together in a lush setting to practice and connect to deepen the healing and enrich our sensual sovereign practices.

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